This Father’s Day, you were absent, utterly and completely. And I, at last, have decided to make peace with myself. We enter this world either by "predestined allotment" or by "acquired choice." I was destined never to have a whole father; this is the backdrop I must learn to accept with equanimity. In the enduring distance between us, I grew accustomed to the perspective of an "observer," calmly examining the textures of all things. Perhaps, this is the only legacy you left

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